You’ve probably heard this question posed by an excited news anchor, teasing the second hour’s big storyю Would you understand should your child had been sexting? exactly How would you manage that situation?
This we hear from a Project Specialist in NCMEC’s Exploited Children Division to get her take on sexting and how parents/guardians can help prevent it and respond to it week.
Sexting most often relates to the sending or posting of nude or partially nude pictures of yourself to a different individual, often via mobile phone or application.
Sexting just isn’t a behavior unique to teenagers. Quite the contrary, well-known politicians and Hollywood movie movie stars are also caught in sexting scandals, but here at NCMEC, we deal particularly with online exploitation concerning kids, when a teen’s (read: small) intimate image goes online, we might get a CyberTipline report. Why do people sext?
People sext for a number of reasons. They may be:
Some individuals send sexts willingly. Sometimes, people may deliver a sext after being bullied or coerced into delivering them. In other cases, intimately explicit pictures are captured without permission by firmly taking screen shots, hacking into a cam, or digitally changing pictures.
Lots of people, specially teenagers who, whenever in new/unfamiliar circumstances, tend to act impulsively and emotionally without thinking through longer-term impacts, is almost certainly not conscious of the risks or consequences of sexting.
What you should do if it occurs
Fortunately, many teenagers who have delivered a sext don’t have their image spread, get extorted, or end up getting a court date, but teens that are helping the risks and exactly exactly what actions to just take should they or a buddy is dealing with negative effects because of sexting continues to be crucial. Here are a few things that are key talk about:
Sexting is just a delicate but crucial topic to protect. NCMEC, in cooperation using the U.S. Department of Justice, has established a PSA to illustrate exactly how dramatic the consequences of sexting and sextortion may be. Also, the NetSmartz movie “Your Photo Fate” takes a glance at the way in which a individual picture can spread online, the effects for both the transmitter plus the recipients associated with image, and offers resources for all whose image may currently be available to you.
Sexting and sextortion are subjects that some teenagers might find hard to speak about with grownups. NetSmartz has resources for both adults and teenagers which will help start the conversation.
The end sheet “Talking to Teens About Sexting” goes throughout the risks of sexting and offers sample conversation starters to engage teens in a conversation around the subject.
Furthermore, the tip sheet “Think Before you Post” serves to remind teenagers regarding the potential consequences of giving images that are sexually explicit. Also, you might want to make the “You Sent a Sext, Now just what?” tip sheet available for those whose images may currently be on the market. This tip sheet reviews steps which can be taken up to contact internet sites and apps about getting rid of the information, just how to report sextortion, and approaches to find support during exactly what can be considered a time that is stressful.